You are here to impose limitations on others. The limitation may come out abruptly such as ''You can't do this,'' or ''You can't continue with that.'' But the limitation is important. It is what saves us from endlessly wandering without structure. It helps provide clarity as we can focus within the boundaries of the limits. It can be safety-oriented like ''You cannot go outside at night.'' But its abruptness comes from lack of explanation. Your tendency will be to put the limits out there and not include the reason for doing so. This won't always be popular, so strive to explain yourself.