The energy your Cross brings is to possess people in your life. You have a desire to have control and possession of those with whom you are involved. It is important to follow your Human Design type and strategy, otherwise people you are trying to rule will not be accepting and will become distressed or even angry with your relationship. If you need to be invited, then wait to be invited. If you need to respond, then wait to respond. If you need to inform, then inform. Following your Human Design type and strategy is crucial to making your Cross work for others and most importantly, for you.